I am impressed that you have access to my thoughts? Have you told your doctor about your ability to read minds?
I suggests you contact TDW to explain to them their decision to use Virt-x as primary routing for their orders is not applied to yours. I think you should also expalin to Advfn that contrary to their declaration that they have no feeds from Virt-X they do, but only for your orders.
So to summarise
You can read my mind
TDW change their order routing as soon as they see you
Advfn build a data feed to Virt-x but, only for your orders